When the Mistress takes over.

According to PM News Nigeria,

The 12-year old marriage between Abosode  Ibiniyo and her husband Biniyo crashed after the man chased out the woman and their three kids, and brought in his mistress to satisfy him.

The husband went further to file a suit before a Lagos customary court sitting in Ejigbo, seeking the dissolution of their marriage.

The wife claimed that since the husband met and started dating a woman from Akwa Ibom state, his
behavior changed  and he accused of not knowing how to make love and handle a man. You can read up the full story here PM News Nigeria


Wow, this one is a very big issue, you can never tell what the real issue is here.. But the fact still remains that couples should do stuffs to always keep their marriage new and fun.

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Here are tips of what can be done..

1. A woman should always keep herself busy, no matter how small, learn a trade new skill, just try to do something no matter how small.
2. A husband and wife should always try to create time for each other, even if it is once in a month, you guys can go out of the house for a date night, just look for somewhere to go out side the house, you will be surprised at the new thing you will learn about your spouse.
3. A woman should never allow her self go, get a deodorant, powder, lip gloss or lip-stick, try to do something nice on your hair, there are a  thousand and one things you can do to look nice and still not break a bank, there are so many affordable weaves and attachments in the market, it must not be a Brazilian or human hair.
4. Always smell GOOD, thank God for the affordable body spray in the market, buy one and use on your self, take care of yourself, love and appreciate yourself.
5. Change your under-wears regularly and your hairnet too, please wash them, from time to time.
6. Read and update yourself with things that are happening around you, always try to know, it is usually a great conversation starter between a husband and wife, when there is nothing else to talk about.
7. Be civil to your in-laws and husband relatives, try to keep in touch once in a while, it really helps
8. Build a very good relationship with God, create a quiet time with him, set an hour, 30-minutes or even 10 minutes each day to just be in God's presence, you will be amazed on the great change that will take place in your life, speak God's words each day and speak good things into your husbands and children life everyday.
9. Pray always.
10. Keep your home neat and fresh, thank God for the affordable air-fresheners available in the market now, bridle your tongue and above all study your man, (husband) very well.

I know men have issues too, in fact their issues plenty.... But if you have a Good man, husband and father, please learn to study him and trust in God, you will have a peaceful and loving home.

It is well...